I love him, and he says he loves me too.
Yep: It teaches people—say, gym teachers in Iowa who just got handed the responsibility of teaching sex ed—how to teach about sex.
Dear How to Do It, What would you suggest a liberal, vanilla, suburban, nonreligious Jewish, heterosexual couple in their early 40s tell their 8- and 12-year-old sons about pornography on the internet to keep them safe? Tell your kids that porn is a fantasy—an entertainment medium—and then get them useful, science-based sex ed.
His coming out did not hurt me as much as him cheating on me after I accepted everything he shared.
Broke my heart into a million pieces.
Take the opportunity to point out this distinction when you see it.
My questions are, what should I do to go from vanilla to birthday cake? I am married and monogamous, and I get massages for stress relief, although I prefer male therapists both for the hand strength and the added titillation.
Does your husband know that you prefer massages from men because it titillates you? But what do I do to move on? For me, this is a new experience as with other partners this has never been an issue.