Ask him about his fantasies about the love making and try to replicate them in real life.
When you keep both of your legs together.
Think back to the early days of your relationship and how you treated one another, and then try to cultivate an atmosphere of love, gratitude, and praise.
He wants to get primal.
It was really, really hot.
The most reliable ways of doing this are not through penetration, but through oral, hand, or toy sex.
You just need to take the time and energy to focus on your own pleasure.
Look your fears in the eyes and you'll discover that it's not that scary, you just need the right information to believe in yourself.